Living between cultures is a complex dance. Whether you are navigating a new life in Berlin, raising a multi-cultural family, or managing the delicate "lead and follow" of an international relationship, the challenge is often the same: Where do I belong?
I specialize in supporting those who live across borders. Being born into a German-Chinese family and living in a multi-cultural marriage myself, I understand that "home" isn't just a place—it’s a rhythm you create.
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How we work together
We use Systemic Choreography to bring clarity to the unique dynamics of international and transitional life.
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For Individuals (The Global Soul): If you feel torn between worlds, we work to shift your perspective so you can stand tall in your unique identity.
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For International Couples: We explore the "dance" between your different backgrounds, helping you feel a new, shared rhythm that respects both origins.
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The Wedding Journey (Specialized Coaching & Choreography): Preparing for your wedding is more than planning a party; it’s the beginning of a new choreography as a couple. I offer a unique blend of Wedding Dance Choreography and Systemic Coaching. We don't just practice your first dance; we use the process to align your vision, manage the "lead and follow" of your partnership, and step into your marriage with a felt sense of sync.
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For Families: We map out the generational patterns that travel with you across borders, helping your family evolve into a supportive system where every member feels grounded.
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Focus Theme
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Identity & Belonging: Finding your "inner home" when your outer world is changing.
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Cultural "Lead & Follow": Navigating power dynamics in bi-cultural relationships.
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The Marriage /Parenting Shift: Moving from "I" to "We" through the ritual of dance and systemic alignment.
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Intergenerational Healing: Addressing family patterns that manifest in a new cultural context.
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What to expect
In these sessions, we often use Spatial Mapping to visualize the different "worlds" you inhabit.
There is a unique magic in the collective. In my group workshops, we use the power of representatives to make complex systems vivid and tangible. It is a space of deep empathy and shared evolution.
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Best for: Deep-seated family patterns and those who love the energy of a group.
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The Experience: Participating as a "representative" or bringing your own "case."
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Outcome: Profound insights and a felt sense of connection to the whole.
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Pricing .
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Discovery Call (15 min): Free of charge.
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Individual/Couples Session (90 min): 160 €
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Wedding "In Sync" Package: Customized packages available including both choreography and coaching sessions. Please inquire for details.
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Sessions are available in English, German, and Chinese (Mandarin).
Ready to take the first step?
If you are unsure which service fits your current situation, let’s talk. In a free 15-minute discovery call, we can find the choreography that serves you best.