Couple Mediation
Incorporating constellation methods
1 hr 30 min
165 € (included VAT 19%)
About the session
Couple Mediation with a Systemic Approach
Relationships are living systems—rich, complex, and deeply influenced by what lies beneath the surface. When couples face recurring conflict, emotional distance, or uncertainty about the future, it can feel frustrating, confusing, or painful.
Couple mediation offers a safe and neutral space to pause, listen, and reconnect. It allows both partners to be heard, to better understand each other’s needs, and to move from reactivity toward mutual understanding.
In this work, I combine classic mediation techniques with systemic constellation methods, offering a deeper lens on what may be driving your dynamics—often beyond what’s consciously known.
Why Systemic Constellation Work?
Sometimes, the difficulties in a relationship aren't just about the two people involved. Unconscious family loyalties, unresolved emotional entanglements, or inherited cultural patterns can all shape how we relate, communicate, and react.
Constellation-based methods help bring these hidden layers into awareness. Through symbolic placements, embodied sensing, or visual tools, we explore the relational field—not just the content of your conversations, but the emotional undercurrents and historical influences behind them.
This process often brings a sense of relief, clarity, and movement. When something unspoken is seen, or a deeper truth is acknowledged, new possibilities can emerge.
Common Themes in Couple Mediation:
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Recurring conflict or emotional disconnection
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Feeling stuck in repetitive roles or misunderstandings
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Life transitions (parenthood, relocation, separation)
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Difficult decisions (e.g., staying together or parting ways)
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Navigating differences in culture, background, or communication style
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Longing to reconnect with intimacy, clarity, or mutual respect
Whether you're in crisis or simply want to deepen your understanding of one another, this space is designed to support honest dialogue, new insight, and shared next steps.
What Happens in a Session?
Each couple is different, but a session often includes:
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Joint check-in: We begin by hearing both perspectives—what's present, what feels stuck, and what you each hope for.
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Exploring dynamics: Using conversation, systemic questioning, and simple tools (e.g., objects, placements, body awareness), we look at the deeper structure of the issue.
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Facilitated dialogue: I support both of you in expressing, listening, and making space for new understanding.
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Integration: We close with a sense of what shifted, what feels clearer, and what might be a next step.
This is not about assigning blame or forcing agreement—it’s about uncovering what wants to be seen and creating space for genuine connection and movement.
How Many Sessions?
One session can offer relief or insight, but for deeper, more lasting shifts, I recommend starting with at least three sessions. This gives us time to build trust, explore patterns thoroughly, and support sustainable change.
If desired, we can also create an ongoing rhythm of sessions tailored to your needs—especially helpful during times of transition or rebuilding.
